Rugby League World Cup 2017

Rugby League World Cup 2017


This is my first time blogging in quite a while, so when Helen asked me to whip something up, it was a mixture of Yay time to blog again, and shit….when do I even get one second to breathe with these kids of mine? So here goes, my experience of being a Rugby Wife and trekking half way across the world, alone, with two children.

 

Kallum was selected to represent his country in the Rugby League World Cup 2017, this was Kallums second time playing in a World Cup whilst we had been together, except last time we had one child, and the World Cup was in the UK.

 

When Kal goes away to play for his country, it's always bitter sweet for me. Sweet because even though I don’t really know the first thing about Rugby, I know that this is a huge deal, and a massive honour. It also sounds pretty cool “yeah i’m alone with the kids because my Husband is  away playing in the World Cup”, I’m allowed to brag about something so great, right? On the other hand, it’s bitter because we are without him for weeks, or months at a time. Last year the World Cup for me, meant eight whole weeks alone without Kallum, and for our eldest Andre- who understands, that meant a long long long long time without Dad. Kal is the ‘fun’ parent, the dragon slaying, marvel watching, quavers for tea kind of parent, you know the one that your kids immensely prefer. So for eight whole weeks, Andre, and baby Valentino, were left with monster Mum.

 

Rugby League players aren't like footballers. They don’t get paid huge amounts, they don't get the same kind of exposure as footballers, and therefore as a players family, we don't have the same kind of opportunities. This means that most of the time stuff gets stuck on the credit card, and we deal with it later. After weeks of consideration, we decided that we would love to be able to go and see Kallum in the World Cup, but most importantly our baby Valentino was only six months old when Kal left the country for eight weeks, and I didn’t want Kal to miss out on his time seeing him grow and develop into a mini version of him. We managed to get a good deal on flights, and instead of taking our family holiday at the end of the season, instead we opted to go and support Daddy in Australia. It was also a big decision to make, as Andre had not long since started Reception, so I had to make the call as a Mum, what was more important, school work or life experience? It was a really tough call, and I feel so lucky that we can give our children some of these amazing opportunities, whilst their Daddy is still in the height of his career.

 

Most people looked at me like I was crazy when I said I was going to travel to the other side of the world with a four year old, and six month old baby, on my own. I had been asked several times if i was nervous for the flight, but in true Sophie Watkins style, I winged it. I rarely think about the future, I try be in the moment and take it all in my stride, but thankfully for me, something very rare and quite magical happened, the kids decided not to be shits! Andre was happy watching the TV, and Tino slept most of the way, it wasn't half as barbaric as i expected. Usually when I take a trip alone with the kids, I need three bottles of wine to get over it, and that's just to Asda!

 

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Kal had been over in Australia for a month before we got there, it was an amazing moment, and something that I will treasure forever how I felt when we were reunited. Experiencing Australia together was priceless, alot of our friends are Australian, and it made me realise why they all can't wait to get home, haha! Although our country has some great things to offer, Scarborough beach doesn't quite compare. The fact that we got to the World Cup final was just amazing, most people had written off England before it had even begun, so to end up in the final was outstanding. I always joke about not being into rugby as a game, and not understanding what's going on, but I always feel the emotion when Kal plays. When I see him stood in his England shirt belting out the national anthem, well it's given me goosebumps just writing about it. I am automatically filled with pride and emotion, he's the most passionate person about his career that i've ever met, and after seeing how much dedication and sacrifice he makes, he deserves all the glory of the number three England shirt! The score was six nill to Australia. It was devastating, and I actually put my head in my hands to hide my tears once the final whistle went. It felt so close, but yet so far.


 

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When our time in Australia was over, I had to organise flights home for me and the kids. Kal was sat next to the I’m a celebrity get me out of here winner Toff, sipping champagne in business class, and I was on a separate flight back with two jet lagged kids and zero extra leg room. Safe to say, I was a tiny bit jealous.  

 

I don't think in any sports, you could achieve anything more than being part of a World Cup. It's the event that all sportsmen throughout the world play their skins off for, year in, year out, to try and be recognised for a call up to the main event. What an incredible opportunity as a family too, to be able to stand in the crowd and watch the person you adore living their dream. It makes the long flights, sacrifices, and time apart seem so unimportant, none of that even matters when the person you love is stood on the field in front of you, and your screaming their name.

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Sophie Watkins Xx